Do not despair! The total chaos in our lives is Ok because God works in the chaos. When the dust settles, you will be blessed. The question becomes, When will the dust settle? The answer is – Stop asking questions and trust completely. Know the truth and you will be free.
The truth may be totally different than you expect. Instead of learning how you can fix someone else, you may learn how you can modify yourself so that you naturally bring out the best in the other person and find what you are looking for. If you expect less of others and more of yourself, you may be surprised. If you care more for others than you do for yourself, you may find a bottomless pool of love and understanding that will nurture you to your optimum potential.
Give without reservation but with wisdom and understanding.